“Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up. But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up.” – Ecclesiastes 4: 9-10 It’s true that two should be better than one. What happens when […]
“I Love You, I Love You, I Love You! Don’t You Know?” “No, I don’t! How will I know? I don’t read minds!” True Talk. Love is to be expressed. You can’t claim to love your spouse if you don’t say or show it – in fact, you may even say it and they won’t […]
Every plant needs to be nurtured to grow. This same way, every marriage needs nourishment to grow. The three-pronged nourishment that every marriage needs is Love, Affection and Desire. These three words may seem synonymous – and in reality they should be – but they often aren’t always present in the right doses in every […]
“…If there’s so much love, why do we have so many unresolved issues? Why is it that a number of us feel frustrated and feel like the other person does not love us as they so claim to do?”
Our model Scriptures when it comes to how we should live our lives as women is often restricted to Proverbs 31. If we stretch that a bit, we can mention Ephesians 5. Should my role as a woman only be limited to these portions of Scripture. By the way, these only address married women. So, […]
My two year old daughter never misses her goodbye hug. If she goes out, she will come back to say “Mummy, big hug..” And I would take some time to give her a hug and also give my husband another hug as they set out for the day. This morning, she came in as usual, […]
When it comes to the issue of disagreement between a couple, there are those who believe that the kids should never have to witness their parents disagree. Their point is that these experiences may affect children emotionally. It is true that when a relationship is always about fights and violence, it could have serious traumatic […]
Now that you have Confronted your spouse about the affair, and you have given him some time to go and ponder on his decision about whether he wants to fight for the marriage or not, what are the next steps to take?
Other than loosing a spouse to death, one of the most trying moments of any marriage is when there is an issue of infidelity. It’s true that trust has been betrayed, and the human in us wants to take revenge, or at least hurt back in the way we’ve been hurt, we must just stay […]
The News no one ever wants to hear in a marriage – The News of Infidelity. Hearing that a spouse cheated can be heart breaking and mind shattering. The first reaction of anyone will be: “How Will I survive this?”
“…Seeing you always had me in mind, I can’t stop wishing you left for my sake. If you did, I’d have still had you here with me…”
“I never believed it could happen, but it did”
Most affairs are never planned – they just happen.
No one wakes up one morning and says:
“Today I plan to have an affair”!
But then, affairs happen, and this was for real.